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இதையொட்டி ஜலீல் பிப்ரன் JPஐ பேட்டி காணுகிறார் -

ஜலீல் பிப்ரன் :

பட்டங்கள் பலகோடி பெற்ற, மயிலாடுதுறை மன்னன், நாளைய வரலாறு, நடமாடும் பல்கலைக் கழகம், , ஜோதிட கலாநிதி இன்னும் பலவாறாகப் போற்றப்படும் நான் உங்களை பேட்டி காண்பது பற்றி என்ன நினைக்கிறீர்கள்?

JP :

ஞானவயல் வாசகர்களின் Head Letters !

ஜலீல் பிப்ரன் :

எனது 2013ம் ஆண்டு ராசி பலன்கள், கவிதைகள், கதைகள், போட்டோக்கள்  போன்றவைகளை ஞானவயலில் போடாதது குறித்து எனது ரசிகர்கள் உங்கள் மீது கோபமாக இருப்பது தெரியுமா?

JP :

தெரியும்!

ஜலீல் பிப்ரன் :

அப்ப, இந்த ஆண்டு வருமா?

JP :

வரலாம்...

ஜலீல் பிப்ரன் :

ஆன்மீக ஆனா, ஆவன்னா அப்படியே நிக்குதே?

JP :

ஒவ்வொரு மாதமும் 5ம் தேதி மற்றும் 20ம் தேதி பாடங்கள் வரும்.
கேள்விகள் நிறைய எதிர்பார்க்கிறேன். கேளுங்க, கேளுங்க, கேட்டுகிட்டே இருங்க..!

ஜலீல் பிப்ரன் :

சித்தர்கள் பற்றி அப்புறம் ஒண்ணுமே போஸ்ட் பண்ணலையே..?

JP :

மாதம் ஒரு சித்தர் பற்றி பதிவு பண்ண விருப்பம்.

ஜலீல் பிப்ரன் :

திருக்குறள் மற்றும் தமிழ் பாடல்கள் விளக்கங்களும் நின்று விட்டதே?

JP :

நண்பர் ஒருவரின் அறிவுரையின்படியும், வாசகர்கள் ஆதரவின்மையாலும் நின்று விட்டது.

ஜலீல் பிப்ரன் :

தென்றல் நினைவுகள் இந்த மாதம் ஒன்று கூட வரவில்லையே?

JP :

நினைவுகள் தொடர்பான போட்டோக்கள் தேடி எடுப்பதில் நேரம் போய் விடுகின்றது.

ஜலீல் பிப்ரன் :

எதையெல்லாம் பதிவு செய்ய விருப்பம்?

JP :

நான் வசித்த இடங்கள், பார்த்த ஊர்கள், பழகிய நண்பர்கள், குடும்பம், உறவினர்கள், அலுவலகம், மனவளக்கலை என நிறைய பதிவு செய்ய ஆசை.

ஜலீல் பிப்ரன் :

Face Book ல் ஏன் வரவில்லை?

JP :

நிறைய பேர்கள் அழைக்கிறார்கள். இன்னும் நுழையவில்லை. சீக்கிரம் வர வாய்ப்பு உள்ளது.

ஜலீல் பிப்ரன் :

இந்த 475 post களில்  பெரும்பாலானவை cut & paste தானே?

JP :

ஆம். நான் படித்தவைகளில் சிலவற்றைத்தான் பதிவு செய்துள்ளேன். படிப்பவர்களின் விருப்பம் தெரியாததால் தொடருகின்றேன்.

ஜலீல் பிப்ரன் :

இந்த இரண்டாம் ஆண்டில் என்ன எதிர்பார்க்கலாம்?

JP :

BHEL  பணி இந்த ஆண்டுடன் நிறைவு பெறுவதால் ஓய்வு கிடைப்பது சிரமம்.
எனினும் நேயர் விருப்பம் தெரிந்தால் நிறைவேற்ற முயல்வேன்.

ஜலீல் பிப்ரன் :

மறுபடியும் கேட்கின்றேன்,,இந்த ஆண்டு எனக்கு வாய்ப்புண்டா?
                                                                                            

JP :

மாதம்  ஒருமுறை.. ..முயற்சிக்கிறேன்!          


ஜலீல் பிப்ரன் :

நிறைவாக...?

JP :

உற்சாகமூட்டிய அனைத்து நல்ல உள்ளங்களுக்கும் மிக்க நன்றி!

POSTER OF THIS WEEK

                                                               

MIDWEEK INSPIRATION

3  DAILY  HABITS  THAT  HELP  ME  TO  STAY   OPTIMISTIC

 -  Henrik



"Nobody can go back and start a new beginning, but anyone can start today
and make a new ending."

                                                                                                                       Maria Robinson

One of the most common questions people ask me based on my blog's name and
what I write about is simply how one can become more of an optimist.

So today I would simply like to share three habits that I use just about every day
and that help me to stay optimistic in pretty much any situation. Sometimes it

may take a while before I find an optimistic thread of thought but these three
habits usually help me to find it.

1. Ask yourself questions that let you see the optimistic viewpoint.

When I'm in what seems like a negative situation my most common way of making
something better out of that is to ask myself questions that promote optimism and
helps me to find solutions.

Questions like:

• What is one thing that is positive or good about this situation?
• What can I learn from this situation?
• What is the opportunity within this situation?

These questions are not something that I can always use right away when I wind
up in one of those situations. Sometimes I need some time to process and accept
the feelings and thoughts that arise. But after a bit of time, when those thoughts
and feelings have mostly passed, I ask myself one or more of these questions.

2. Get optimistic support from the world around you.

One the most important factors for being able to stay optimistic are the influences
around you.

Optimism is - just like enthusiasm - contagious.

So find ways to create an environment that supports you.

• The people in your life. Try to spend more time with optimistic people
  and less time with people who seem to always be negative about things. One
  practical way to gain a more optimistic viewpoint is by just talking to
  someone close to you about your current issue.
  Just letting it out and saying it out loud can often help you to hear how
  exaggerated your thoughts and emotions have become. And by talking about
  it with someone that is supportive you can get a positive and constructive
  change in perspective.
• The information you let into your mind. One of the simplest thingsyou can do to create and support your own optimism is simply to regularly
  read blogs and books and listen to or watch recordings created by optimistic
  people.

3. Start your day in an optimism creating way.

I have mentioned this many times in the past because the way you start your day
often sets the tone for the rest of your day.

A stress-free morning leads to less stressed feelings and thoughts during your
day. A work out early in your day leads to more energy throughout the day. And

optimism while you are eating your cereal or having your coffee can help you to

stay positive and constructive as you go through the ups and downs of your day.

Practical ways to get this good start is to have an uplifting and/or motivating
conversation over breakfast or early in your day. Or to read or watch something
optimistic.

STORY WITH A MORAL

There was a hunter who came into the possession of a special bird dog. The dog was the only one of its kind, because it can walk on water. One day he invited a friend to go hunting with him so that he could show off his prized possession. After some time, they shot a few ducks, which fell into the river. The man ordered his dog to run and fetch the birds. The dog ran on water to fetch the birds. The man was expecting a compliment about the amazing dog, but did not receive it. Being curious, he asked his friend if the friend had noticed anything unusual about the dog. The friend replied, “Yes, I did see something unusual about your dog. Your dog can’t swim!”

Success Principles

More than 90% of the people that we face everyday are negative. They choose to look at the hole in the middle rather than the doughnut. Do not expect compliments or encouragement from them. These are the people who cannot pull you out of your present situation. They can only push you down. So be aware of them, spend less time with them, and do not let them steal your dreams away from you.

HARD WORK Vs LONG WORK

Hard work vs. Long work

Long work is what the lawyer who bills 14 hours a day filling in forms does.
Hard work is what the insightful litigator does when she synthesizes four disparate ideas and comes up with an argument that wins the case--in less than five minutes.

Long work has a storied history. Farmers, hunters, factory workers... Always there was long work required to succeed. For generations, there was a huge benefit that came to those with the stamina and fortitude to do long work.
Hard work is frightening. We shy away from hard work because inherent in hard work is risk. Hard work is hard because you might fail. You can't fail at long work, you merely show up. You fail at hard work when you don't make an emotional connection, or when you don't solve the problem or when you hesitate.

I think it's worth noting that long work often sets the stage for hard work. If you show up enough and practice enough and learn enough, it's more likely you will find yourself in a position to do hard work.

It seems, though that no matter how much long work you do, you won't produce the benefits of hard work unless you are willing to leap.

STRANGER

I use to quote this poem whenever I take class on " Neutralisation of Anger" -  

STRANGER

She smiled at the sorrowful stranger.
The smiling seemed to make him feel better.

He remembered past kindnesses of a friend
and wrote him a thank you letter.

The friend was so pleased with the thank you
that he left a large tip after lunch.

The waitress, surprised by the size of the tip,
gave part of it to a man on the street.

The man on the street was grateful;
because for two days he'd had nothing to eat.

After he finished his dinner,
he left for his small dingy room.

He didn't know at that moment
That he might be facing his doom.

On the way he picked up a shivering puppy
and took him home to get warm.

The puppy was very grateful
to be out of the storm.

That night the house caught fire.
The puppy barked the alarm.

He barked till he woke the whole household
and saved everybody from harm.

One of the boys that he rescued
grew up to be the President.

All this because of a simple smile
that hadn't cost a cent.

தைப்பூசம்

இன்று தைப்பூசம்.

நட்சத்திரபடி  பிறந்தநாள்.

அதிகாலை நான்கு மணிக்கு கிளம்பி வடலூர் சென்றோம்.
அங்கு வந்திருந்த கும்பகோணம் தவத்திரு ராமதாஸ் அண்ணா சுவாமிகளிடம்
ஆசிகள் பெற்று அருட்பெரும்ஜோதி தரிசனம் கண்டு மதியம் வீடு திரும்பினோம்.

இன்று வீட்டில் எடுத்த சில போட்டோக்கள் -

தோட்டத்தில் 

தலைவியுடன் 

பிறந்தநாள்  வாழ்த்துக்கள் சொல்ல வந்த நண்பர் குழந்தைகளுடன் 

WEEKEND WISDOM

BE  THANKFUL

Be thankful when you don't know something ... For it gives you the opportunity to learn.

Be thankful for the difficult times ... During those times you grow.

Be thankful for your limitations ... They give you opportunities for improvement.

Be thankful for each new challenge... Which will build your strength and character.

Be thankful for your mistakes ... They will teach you valuable lessons.

It's easy to be thankful for the 'good' things ...  Yet, a life of rich fulfillment comes to those who are thankful for the setbacks.

Gratitude can turn a negative into a positive ...  Find a way to be thankful for your troubles and they can become your blessings!

பத்மஸ்ரீ S K M மயிலானந்தன் அவர்கள

இந்த ஆண்டு குடியரசு தின பத்மஸ்ரீ விருது உலக சமதாய சேவா சங்க தலைவர் அருள்நிதி SKM மயிலானந்தன் அவர்களுக்கு அவரின் சிறந்த 

சமூக சேவைக்காக வழங்கப்பட்டுள்ளது. 

அனைத்து மனவளக்கலைஞர்கள் சார்பாக 

அவரை வாழ்த்துவதில் பெரு மகிழ்ச்சி 

அடைகின்றோம்.

வாழ்க திரு  SKM  மயிலானந்தன் அவர்கள் !

வாழ்க அவர் புகழ்!

வாழ்க வளமுடன்!

(இவரைப் பற்றி விரிவான கட்டுரை விரைவில் )

Sri   with  Sri  SKM   2010

மாலா, ஸ்ரீ, திரு SKM  & JP

HAPPY REPUBLIC DAY!

sāre jahāñ se acchā hindostāñ hamārā
ham bulbuleñ haiñ us kī vuh gulsitāñ hamārā

ġhurbat meñ hoñ agar ham, rahtā hai dil vat̤an meñ

samjho vuhīñ hameñ bhī dil ho jahāñ hamārā

parbat vuh sab se ūñchā, hamsāyah āsmāñ kā
vuh santarī hamārā, vuh pāsbāñ hamārā

godī meñ kheltī haiñ us kī hazāroñ nadiyāñ
gulshan hai jin ke dam se rashk-e janāñ hamārā

ay āb-rūd-e gangā! vuh din haiñ yād tujh ko?
utarā tire kināre jab kāravāñ hamārā

mażhab nahīñ sikhātā āpas meñ bair rakhnā
hindī haiñ ham, vat̤an hai hindostāñ hamārā

yūnān-o-miṣr-o-rumā sab miṭ gaʾe jahāñ se
ab tak magar hai bāqī nām-o-nishāñ hamārā

kuchh bāt hai kih hastī miṭtī nahīñ hamārī
sadiyoñ rahā hai dushman daur-e zamāñ hamārā

iqbāl! koʾī maḥram apnā nahīñ jahāñ meñ
maʿlūm kyā kisī ko dard-e nihāñ hamārā!

 Translation

Better than the entire world, is our Hindustan,
We are its nightingales, and it (is) our garden abode

If we are in an alien place, the heart remains in the homeland,
Know us to be only there where our heart is.

That tallest mountain, that shade-sharer of the sky,
It (is) our sentry, it (is) our watchman

In its lap frolic those thousands of rivers,
Whose vitality makes our garden the envy of Paradise.

O the flowing waters of the Ganges, do you remember that day
When our caravan first disembarked on your waterfront?

Religion does not teach us to bear ill-will among ourselves
We are of Hind, our homeland is Hindustan.

In a world in which ancient Greece, Egypt, and Rome have all vanished without trace
Our own attributes (name and sign) live on today.

Such is our existence that it cannot be erased
Even though, for centuries, the cycle of time has been our enemy.

Iqbal! We have no confidants in this world
how will any one know of our hidden pain?

AQUARIUS



January 21 - February 19

அவிட்டம் 3ம பாதம், சதயம் & பூரட்டாதி 3ம் பாதம்

Beta Delphinum, Lambda Aquarius & Alpha Pegassi

சிரிப்பு ஞானம் - 24

FUNNY  PUNS

1. Two antennas met on a roof, fell in love and got married. The ceremony wasn't much, but the reception was excellent.

2. A jumper cable walks into a bar. The bartender says, "I'll serve you, but don't start anything."

3. Two peanuts walk into a bar, and one was a salted.

4. A dyslexic man walks into a bra.

5. A man walks into a bar with a slab of asphalt under his arm and says: "A beer please, and one for the road."

6. Two cannibals are eating a clown. One says to the other: "Does this taste funny to you?"

7. "Doc, I can't stop singing 'The Green, Green Grass of Home.'" "That sounds like Tom Jones Syndrome." "Is it common?" "Well, It's Not Unusual."

8. Two cows are standing next to each other in a field. Daisy says to Dolly, "I was artificially inseminated this morning."
"I don't believe you," says Dolly.
"It's true, no bull!" exclaims Daisy.

9. An invisible man marries an invisible woman. The kids were nothing to look at either.

10. Deja Moo: The feeling that you've heard this bull before.

11. I went to buy some camouflage trousers the other day but I couldn't find any.

12. A man woke up in a hospital after a serious accident. He shouted, Doctor, doctor, I can't feel my legs!" The doctor replied, "I know you can't - I've cut off your arms!"

13. I went to a seafood disco last week...and pulled a mussel.

14. What do you call a fish with no eyes? A fsh.

15. Two fish swim into a concrete wall. The one turns to the other and says "Dam!".

16. Two Eskimos sitting in a kayak were chilly, so they lit a fire in the craft. Unsurprisingly it sank, proving once again that you can't have your kayak and heat it too.

17. A group of chess enthusiasts checked into a hotel and were standing in the lobby discussing their recent tournament victories. After about an hour, the manager came out of the office and asked them to disperse. "But why," they asked, as they moved off.
"Because", he said, "I can't stand chess-nuts boasting in an open foyer."

 

A women goes to bed at night irritated at her husband so she decides for once in her life to pray, and this is what she said 

"God give me tolerance for my husbands stupidity, give me wisdom to understand him, give me forgiveness to forgive him of his ignorance, but please God I beg of thee don’t give me strength cause I’ll kill him!"

    Love is holding hands in the street.

Marriage is holding arguments in the street.

Love is dinner for 2 in your favorite restaurant.

Marriage is a take home packet.

Love is cuddling on a sofa.

Marriage is one of them sleeping on a sofa.

Love is talking about having children.

Marriage is talking about getting away from children.

Love is going to bed early.

Marriage is going to sleep early.

Love is a romantic drive.

Marriage is arrive on tops curvy tarmac .

Love is losing your appetite.

Marriage is losing your figure.

Love is sweet nothing in the ear.

Marriage is sweet nothing in the bank.

Tv has no place in love.

Marriage is a fight for remote control.

Love is 1 drink and 2 straws.

Marriage is "Don't you think you've had enough!".

Conclusion: "Love is blind , Marriage is an eye opener!"

LOVE - When your eyes meet across a crowded room.
MARRIAGE - When you try to lose your spouse in a crowded room.

LOVE - When you argue over how many children to have.
MARRIAGE - When you argue over whose idea it was to have kids.

LOVE - When you share everything you own.
MARRIAGE - When the bank owns everything.

LOVE - When it doesn't matter if you don't climax.
MARRIAGE - When . . . Uh . . . what's a climax?

 1 Girl 1 Smile
 1 Smile 1 meet
    1 Meeting 1 Propos                                  
1 Propose 1 Love
1 Love 1 Marriage
1 Marriage 9999999 Problems
So, first avoid the smile

A Husband frantically calls hotel management from his hotel room,
"Please come fast I'm having an argument with my wife
and she says she will jump out the window of your hotel".

The manager responded, "Sir that's a personal matter ".

Husband: "Idiot, the window won't open! That's a maintenance matter !"



Here is conversation between the software engineer husbands and his wife..........................

Husband - hey dear, I am logged in.

Wife - would you like to have some snacks?
Husband - hard disk full.

Wife - have you brought the saree.
Husband - Bad command or file name.

Wife - but I told you about it in morning
Husband - erroneous syntax, abort, retry, cancel.


Wife - hae bhagwan !forget it where's your salary.
Husband - file in use, read only, try after some time.


Wife - at least give me your credit card,i can do some shopping.
Husband - sharing violation, access denied.


Wife - i made a mistake in marrying you.
Husband - data type mismatch.


Wife - you are useless.
Husband - by default.


Wife - who was there with you in the car this morning?
Husband - system unstable press ctrl, alt, del to Reboot.


Wife - what is the relation between you & your Receptionist?
Husband - the only user with write permission.


Wife - what is my value in your life?
Husband - unknown virus detected.


Wife - do you love me or your computer?
Husband - Too many parameters.


Wife - i will go to my dad's house.
Husband - program performed illegal operation, it will Close.


Wife - I will leave you forever.
Husband - close all programs and log out for another User.


Wife - it is worthless talking to you.
Husband - shut down the computer.


Wife - I am going
Husband - Its now safe to turn off your computer.



A JOKE DEDICATED TO SOFTWARE ENGINEERS

One day, a Mechanical Engineer, an Electrical Engineer, a Chemical Engineer and a Software Engineer were driving down the street in the same car.
The car broke down.
The Mechanical Engineer said, “I think a rod broke. We can check the rods.”

The Chemical Engineer said, “The way it sputtered at the end, I don’t think it’s getting gas. We shall check the gas tank.”
The Electrical Engineer said, “I think there was a spark and something is wrong with the electrical system. We shall check the circuitry.”
All three turned to the computer engineer and said, “What do you think?”
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The Computer Engineer said, “We shall get out of the car and get in Again.”

A Priest, a Doctor and an software ENGINEER die and go to heaven, they
hear God's voice and it says:
" My dear sons I am really very sorry but the heaven is full and I can
accommodate only one of u, so to choose the right person, one by one
tell me what u have done in your lifetime.
"The Priest goes up first and says "well God I'm a priest, I am u r
humble servant and have spent all my life working to spread your
message."

The Doctor goes up next and says "well I'm a doctor and I have helped
thousands of people recover from their illnesses"

The SOFTWARE ENGINEER goes up says "well I worked as an SOFTWARE
ENGINEER and........",
before the ENGINEER could say anything further, the heaven's gates
opened and God came with tears in his eyes and said to the SOFTWARE ENGINEER

“ Say no more my son come with me, u have
already been thru HELL...”

Girls are like.....Bank Accounts. Without a lot of money, they don't generate much interest.

Girls are like.....Coffee. The best ones are rich, hot, and can keep working without much complains.

Girls are like.....Computers. Hard to figure out and never have enough memory.

Girls are like.....Government bonds. They take a long time to mature.

Girls are like.....Horoscopes. They always tell you what to do and are usually wrong.

Girls are like.....Lava lamps. Fun to look at, but not all that bright.

Girls are like.....Mascara. They usually run at the first sign of emotion.

காதல் & கல்யாணம் - என்ன வித்தியாசம்?

ஒரு ஞானியை அணுகிய சீடன்,காதலுக்கும் திருமணத்திற்கும் உள்ள வித்தியாசம் என்னவெனக் கேட்டான். ` அதற்கு அந்த ஞானி, ''அது இருக்கட்டும்.முதலில் நீ ரோஜாத் தோட்டத்துக்குப் போ. அங்கே உனக்கு எது உயரமான ரோஜாச் செடி என்று தோன்றுகிறதோ, அதை எடுத்துக் கொண்டு வா. ஆனால் ...ஒரு நிபந்தனை. நீ எக்காரணம் கொண்டும் போன வழியே திரும்பி வரக் கூடாது. ''என்றார்.கிளம்பிய சீடன் சிறிது நேரம் கழித்து வெறும் கையுடன் வந்தான். ஞானி, ''எங்கே உன்னைக் கவர்ந்த உயரமான செடி? ''என்று கேட்டார். சீடன் சொன்னான், 'குருவே,வயலில் இறங்கி நடந்த போது முதலில் உயரமான ஒரு செடி என்னைக் கவர்ந்தது.அதை விட உயரமான செடி இருக்கக் கூடும்என்று தொடர்ந்து நடந்தேன். இன்னும் உயரமான ரோஜாச் செடிகள் தென்பட்டன. அவற்றை விட உயரமான செடிகள் இருக்கக் கூடுமென மேலும் நடந்தேன். அதன் பிறகு தென்பட்டதெல்லாம் குட்டையான ரோஜாச் செடிகளே. வந்த வழியே திரும்ப வரக்கூடாது என்பதால் முன்னர் பார்த்த உயரமான செடியையும் கொண்டு வர முடியாமல் போய் விட்டது. ` ' புன்முறுவலோடு ஞானி சொன்னார்,''இது தான் காதல்.'' ` பின்னர் ஞானி,''சரி போகட்டும், அதோ அந்த வயலில் சென்று உன் கண்ணுக்கு அழகாகத் தெரிகின்ற ஒரு சூரிய காந்திச் செடியைப் பிடுங்கி வா. ஆனால் இப்போது கூடுதலாக ஒரு நிபந்தனை. ஒரு செடியைப் பிடுங்கிய பின் வேறு ஒரு செடியைப் பிடுங்கக் கூடாது.'' சிறிது நேரத்தில் சீடன் ஒரு சூரிய காந்திச் செடியுடன் வந்தான். ஞானி கேட்டார்,''இது தான் அந்தத் தோட்டத்திலேயே அழகான சூரிய காந்திச் செடியா? ''சீடன் சொன்னான், 'இல்லை குருவே, இதை விட அழகான செடிகள் இருக்கின்றன. ஆனால் முதல் முறை கோட்டை விட்டது போல் இந்த முறையும் விட்டு விடக் கூடாது என்ற அச்சத்தில் முகப்பிலேயே எனக்கு அழகாகத் தோன்றிய இந்த செடியைப் பிடுங்கி வந்து விட்டேன். நிபந்தனைப்படி, ஒரு செடியைப் பிடுங்கியபின் வேறு செடியைப் பிடுங்கக் கூடாது என்பதால் அதன் பிறகு இதை விட அழகான செடிகளை நான் பார்த்தபோதும் பறிக்கவில்லை.' ` இப்போது ஞானி சொன்னார், ''இது தான் திருமணம்."
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1 . (Whatever)
Men: What should we have for dinner?
Women: Whatever..
Men: Why don't we have Mexican?
Women: No not Mexican, the last time i got pimples on my face
Men: Alright, why don't we have Szechwan cuisine
Women: Yesterday we ate Szechwan , today too?
Men: Hmm..... I suggest we have seafood
Women: Seafood is not good, I got diarrhea
Men: Then what do you suggest?
Women : Whatever..

2. (Anything)
Men: So what should we do now?
Women: Anything
Men: How about watching a movie? It's been a long time
Women: Watching movie is no good, it's a waste of time
Men: How about we go for bowli
ng, or some exercises?
Women: Exercise on such a hot day?
Men: Then find a cafe and have a drink
Women: I am off caffeine
Men: Then what do you suggest?
Women: Anything

3. (You decide)
Men: Then do we just go home?
Women: You decide
Men: Let's take the bus, I will accompany you
Women: The bus is dirty and crowded.
Men: OK; we will take a cab
Women: Not worth it... for such a short distance
Men: All right, then we can walk. We can enjoy the weather
Women: I am hungry, can't walk.
Men: Then what do you suggest?
Women: You decide
Men: Let's have dinner first?
Women: Whatever...
Men: What shall we eat?
Women: Anything..

4. (Anytime)..
Men: At what time do i have to call you?
Women: Any time as u wish
Men: But last time when i call u in the morning u didn't pick up?
Women: I was sleeping.
Men: OK; when I try to call you around 11 am u didn't pick up?
Women: I was shopping with my mother
Men: So, when I try to call you around 2-3 u didn't pick up?
Women: I was tired and relaxing.
Men: Then what about 5 pm?
Women: I was watching a cartoon.
Men: So, then why didn't you pick u phone in the night?
Women: I was studying
Men: Ok then tell me which time is the most convenience time for you to talk.
Women: Anytime.

 

POSTER OF THIS WEEK

MIDWEEK INSPIRATION

THE  RED  LIGHT

Two men were in a car when they had to stop at a red signal light. The man at the steering did not say anything.

The other man said, "The time we waste at these red lights - why, a man could write a book!"

The driver still said nothing.

Finally the man beside him said, "Didn't you hear what I said?"

"No."

"How come you did not hear? I was talking".

"Whom were you talking to?"

"I was talking to God," he said. "I've been making it a practice every time I get to a red light to pray for one of my friends. It is wonderful how many folks I have on my prayer list and how many I have time to pray for in this way."

LEAVE

Now at  Bangalore ( 3 days )

Never upset God or your Doctor

If you upset God – He sends you to the Doctor

If you upset Doctor –He sends you to God

 

THE SECRET

THE  SECRET THOUGHTS

 by Ella Wheeler Wilcox 

I hold it true that thoughts are things
Endowed with bodies, breath, and wings,
And that we send them forth to fill
The world with good results - or ill.

That which we call our secret thought
Speeds to the earth's remotest spot,
And leaves its blessings or its woes
Like tracks behind it as it goes.

It is God's law. Remember it
In your still chamber as you sit
With thoughts you would not dare have known,
And yet made comrades when alone.

These thoughts have life; and they will fly
And leave their impress by-and-by,
Like some marsh breeze, whose poisoned breath
Breathes into homes its fevered breath.

And after you have quite forgot
Or all outgrown some vanished thought,
Back to your mind to make its home,
A dove or raven, it will come.

Then let your secret thoughts be fair;
They have a vital part and share
In shaping worlds and moulding fate --
God's system is so intricate.

Philosophers worldwide have differed in their opinions and systems of ideas on various accounts, but if there is one thing that all their philosophies have converged on, it is this: our thoughts make us what we are.

We become what we think about most of the time. We get what we think most of the time.

Be careful of what you secretly wish for, hope for and passionately desire in the secret chamber of your mind, for thoughts become things. They have a way of presenting themselves as circumstances in our outer life.

ARGUMENT Vs DISCUSSION

A Wonderful lesson for a Succesful Peaceful Life: :) :)

There are some personalities that can be labeled as argumentative and that shows in their behavior and relationships. Arguments can be avoided and a lot of heartache prevented by being a little careful. The best way to win an argument is to avoid it. An argument is one thing you will never win.

If you win, you lose; if you lose, you lose.

If you win an argument but lose a good job, customer, friend or marriage, what kind of victory is it? Pretty empty.

Arguments result from inflated ego. Arguing is like fighting a losing battle. Even if one wins, the cost may be more than the victory is worth. Emotional battles leave a residual ill will even if you win. In an argument, both people are trying to have the last word. Argument is nothing more than a battle of egos.

If one wants to accomplish great things in life one has to practice maturity. Maturity means not getting entangled in unimportant things and petty arguments.

What are the differences between an Argument and a Discussion?

An argument throws heat; a discussion throws light.

One stems from ego and a closed mind whereas the other comes from an open mind.

An argument is an exchange of ignorance whereas a discussion is an exchange of knowledge.

An argument is an expression of temper whereas a discussion is a lesson of logic.

An argument tries to prove who is right whereas a discussion tries to prove what is right.