We all fight with our parents, partners, siblings, relatives and friends. Nothing wrong with that.
The real test of a relationship is not whether you fight or not. The real test is what you do after the fight. How long do you hold on to what was said or done during the fight. Do you reach out to the person you fought with or do you reach out to everyone else to justify your side?
Do you dress the wound or you pour salt over it? Is that person more important or your ego?
Just like they say for every crime investigation, the first 24 hrs are most crucial. You can either hold on to a person for life or a grudge for life. The choice is yours
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